I got two speeding tickets during the same week.?

On Tuesday, I was caught doing 76 in a 60. I'm usually a very cautious driver, but I know I got what I deserved. However, I was talking on the phone with my boss heading back to work, when I got pulled over for doing 68 in a 55. I want to go to court for the first one and see if I can get driving school, but this second one I am going to be out of state for the trial date. I'd go to court if I could, but I can't, and I am trying to leave my folks out of this second ticket. If I call in and waive my trial for the second ticket, would it affect the trial for the first ticket? What should I do?